Mutuality in Sexual Relationships: a Standard of Ethical Sex?

In this paper we challenge the idea that valid consent is the golden standard by which a sexual encounter is deemed ethical. We begin by reviewing the recent public focus on consent as an ethical standard, and then argue for a standard that goes beyond legalistic and contractual foci. This is the st...

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Authors: Lamb, Sharon (Author) ; Gable, Sam (Author) ; Ruyter, Doret de 1964- (Author)
Format: Electronic Article
Language:English
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Published: [2021]
In: Ethical theory and moral practice
Year: 2021, Volume: 24, Issue: 1, Pages: 271-284
RelBib Classification:NCF Sexual ethics
VA Philosophy
Further subjects:B Campus
B Sexual ethics
B Consent
B Sex
B Mutuality
B Caring attention
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